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Posted by Hamza on November 02, 2009 at 03:11:26:

I took my girl out on Independence day to Silverbird Galleria for a movie after which we headed to Mr Biggs for a treat. It was on this day that I wanted to propose to her and so during our meal, we were gisting and I took that opportunity to ask the question. I mean, I've been going out with her for the past 1 year and we both went to the same university and I'm working while she is too. But, surprisingly, when i dropped the question, Will you marry me?, she said she needs to think about it cos its too sudden. I thought she would say yes or has been waiting for me to ask but she didn't seem to be in a rush and I've been spending a lot of my time invested in her. Now it has been two weeks and she's still thinking about it. Maybe I should not have put all my eggs in one basket and gone out with other girls just to compare before focusing on just one.
I don't understand why she is behaving so or is there another guy? What more does she want from me? How can I make say yes or should I look for another girl?

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Re: What do Nigerian women really want?

Posted by on November 11, 2009 at 11:45:43:
In Reply to: What do Nigerian women really want? posted by Hamza on November 02, 2009 at 03:11:26:

My brother, u have to still give her time, may be she don't want to settle down now, must girls of nowadys are like that, they want to enjoy life before getting married bcos they think that marriage is prison at a younger age. call her and find out if she really want to settle down now before you will look for alternative. thank you.

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Re: What do Nigerian women really want?

Posted by Hamza on November 23, 2009 at 02:42:14:
In Reply to: What do Nigerian women really want? posted by Hamza on November 02, 2009 at 03:11:26:

I would think about it. Maybe she's not meant for me. A man has got to move one

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Re: What do Nigerian women really want?

Posted by Kayus on November 23, 2009 at 02:48:20:
In Reply to: What do Nigerian women really want? posted by Hamza on November 02, 2009 at 03:11:26:

Do you really want to know what they want?

Well, here is a list:

1. Nigerian women want a guy who can spend for them without neccesarily feeling that they owe him something in return

2. They want an educated and intelligible man and not a jjc

3. Nigerian women want a man who is always sexually active

4. They want to have their own free space to do what they like without the guy trailing them.

5. They want an allowance, monthly or weekly

6. They don't want to ever work in their life again

7. They want to have time for leisure and sports

8. They want to look beautiful at all times and relate with people who care about beauty

9. They want to live in a house of their own and not be a tenant

10. They want a guy who can be religious and caring and not a wife beater

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Re: What do Nigerian women really want?

Posted by on November 28, 2009 at 21:26:38:
In Reply to: What do Nigerian women really want? posted by Hamza on November 02, 2009 at 03:11:26:

Not all my guy. or have u bn dealt wt by one. pls let's get hinted

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Re: What do Nigerian women really want?

Posted by Kayus on January 14, 2010 at 07:21:20:
In Reply to: What do Nigerian women really want? posted by Hamza on November 02, 2009 at 03:11:26:

Well, perhaps you have a really unique girl

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Re: What do Nigerian women really want?

Posted by Felix on January 28, 2011 at 01:14:55:
In Reply to: What do Nigerian women really want? posted by Hamza on November 02, 2009 at 03:11:26:

Nigerian women want stability. They want someone they can have confidence in and also gives them personal space. What I like about Nigerian women is that they are always willing to cook for you, even when they are pregnant, they are willing to fight for and support their man, they are ever willing to do the chores. Nigerian women are really good when you compare them to other women across the globe. They respect their man. I think what they really want is :

- A man who keeps to his word
- Someone who is responsible and religious
- Someone who treats them with dignity
- Someone with money not necessarily too much money but someone who invests his money and time in the family

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Re: What do Nigerian women really want? Posted by Godian on Monday September 21, 2015 at 8:22:23:

They want a man who is handsome and has a regular flow of big income. They don't want to suffer but however, who they eventually get married to is not entirely their choice but God's will for them

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